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11th September 2013: The world's gone mad and I'm the only one who knows
13th August 2013: Black is white. Fact. End of.
11th August 2013: Electric cars, not as green as they're painted?
18th June 2013: Wrinklies unite, you have nothing to lose but your walking frames!
17th May 2013: Some actual FACTS about climate change (for a change) from actual scientists ...
10th May 2013: An article about that poison gas, carbon dioxide, and other scientific facts (not) ...
10th May 2013: We need to see past the sex and look at the crimes: is justice being served?
8th May 2013: So, who would you trust to treat your haemorrhoids, Theresa May?
8th May 2013: Why should citizens in the 21st Century fear the law so much?
30th April 2013: What the GOS says today, the rest of the world realises tomorrow ...
30th April 2013: You couldn't make it up, could you? Luckily you don't need to ...
29th April 2013: a vote for NONE OF THE ABOVE, because THE ABOVE are crap ...
28th April 2013: what goes around, comes around?
19th April 2013: everyone's a victim these days ...
10th April 2013: Thatcher is dead; long live Thatcher!
8th April 2013: Poor people are such a nuisance. Just give them loads of money and they'll go away ...
26th March 2013: Censorship is alive and well and coming for you ...
25th March 2013: Just do your job properly, is that too much to ask?
25th March 2013: So, what do you think caused your heterosexuality?
20th March 2013: Feminists - puritans, hypocrites or just plain stupid?
18th March 2013: How Nazi Germany paved the way for modern governance?
13th March 2013: Time we all grew up and lived in the real world ...
12th March 2013: Hindenburg crash mystery solved? - don't you believe it!
6th March 2013: Is this the real GOS?
5th March 2013: All that's wrong with taxes
25th February 2013: The self-seeking MP who is trying to bring Britain down ...
24th February 2013: Why can't newspapers just tell the truth?
22nd February 2013: Trial by jury - a radical proposal
13th February 2013: A little verse for two very old people ...
6th February 2013: It's not us after all, it's worms
6th February 2013: Now here's a powerful argument FOR gay marriage ...
4th February 2013: There's no such thing as equality because we're not all the same ...
28th January 2013: Global Warming isn't over - IT'S HIDING!
25th January 2013: Global Warmers: mad, bad and dangerous to know ...
25th January 2013: Bullying ego-trippers, not animal lovers ...
19th January 2013: We STILL haven't got our heads straight about gays ...
16th January 2013: Bullying ego-trippers, not animal lovers ...
11th January 2013: What it's like being English ...
7th January 2013: Bleat, bleat, if it saves the life of just one child ...
7th January 2013: How best to put it? 'Up yours, Argentina'?
7th January 2013: Chucking even more of other people's money around ...
6th January 2013: Chucking other people's money around ...
30th December 2012: The BBC is just crap, basically ...
30th December 2012: We mourn the passing of a genuine Grumpy Old Sod ...
30th December 2012: How an official body sets out to ruin Christmas ...
16th December 2012: Why should we pardon Alan Turing when he did nothing wrong?
15th December 2012: When will social workers face up to their REAL responsibility?
15th December 2012: Unfair trading by a firm in Bognor Regis ...
14th December 2012: Now the company that sells your data is pretending to act as watchdog ...
7th December 2012: There's a war between cars and bikes, apparently, and  most of us never noticed!
26th November 2012: The bottom line - social workers are just plain stupid ...
20th November 2012: So, David Eyke was right all along, then?
15th November 2012: MPs don't mind dishing it out, but when it's them in the firing line ...
14th November 2012: The BBC has a policy, it seems, about which truths it wants to tell ...
12th November 2012: Big Brother, coming to a school near you ...
9th November 2012: Yet another celebrity who thinks, like Jimmy Saville, that he can behave just as he likes because he's famous ...
5th November 2012: Whose roads are they, anyway? After all, we paid for them ...
7th May 2012: How politicians could end droughts at a stroke if they chose ...
6th May 2012: The BBC, still determined to keep us in a fog of ignorance ...
2nd May 2012: A sense of proportion lacking?
24th April 2012: Told you so, told you so, told you so ...
15th April 2012: Aah, sweet ickle polar bears in danger, aah ...
15th April 2012: An open letter to Anglian Water ...
30th March 2012: Now they want to cure us if we don't believe their lies ...
28th February 2012: Just how useful is a degree? Not very.
27th February 2012: ... so many ways to die ...
15th February 2012: DO go to Jamaica because you definitely WON'T get murdered with a machete. Ms Fox says so ...
31st January 2012: We don't make anything any more
27th January 2012: There's always a word for it, they say, and if there isn't we'll invent one
26th January 2012: Literary criticism on GOS? How posh!
12th December 2011: Plain speaking by a scientist about the global warming fraud
9th December 2011: Who trusts scientists? Apart from the BBC, of course?
7th December 2011: All in all, not a good week for British justice ...
9th November 2011: Well what d'you know, the law really IS a bit of an ass ...

 

 
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From The Telegraph this week ...
 

 
A team of social workers accused a mother of abusing her baby son, when in fact he was suffering from a rare bone disease.
 
Parents Paul Crummey and Amy Garland were horrified when doctors told them their baby son, Harrison, had eight fractures in his arms and legs just weeks after he was born. But they were devastated when social workers accused them of shaking their son by the legs and took him and their daughter Bethany, now five, into care.
 
The terrified couple were arrested, and banned from seeing their two children without supervision. It took 18 months for social workers and doctors to realise baby Harrison was suffering from a rare form of brittle bone disease meaning the slightest touch could snap his bones in two. Now, the family, from Bristol, have been reunited, after prosecutors decided to drop the case when they realised Harrison was suffering from Osteogenesis imperfecta.
 
The nightmare began when Harrison was just six weeks old. Miss Garland, 26, said: "For the first weeks he was bringing up blood with his milk and he was irritable. I knew something wasn't right so I took him to the hospital. They did tests on him but everything came back absolutely normal."
 
But when she got home she noticed his legs were swollen. X-rays later showed Harrison had several fractures in his arm, feet and legs. Miss Garland said: "We obviously had no idea that this condition was in our family so when they asked us how they happened we were left with the answer that we didn't know. They said they needed to investigate it and we were happy for them to do that." Tests showed Harrison's vitamin D levels were abnormally low so he was given injections.
 
As soon as the fractures were discovered, South Gloucestershire Social Services were called in to speak to the couple. Police arrested Miss Garland while she was in hospital with Harrison and Mr Crummey, who was recovering from an operation at home, was also arrested. They were questioned separately under caution by police. Neither of them had been in any sort of trouble before.
 
"The police and social services asked us a lot of questions. They asked me if there was any family history of violence," said Miss Garland. "We found out the police were speaking to all our neighbours asking them what we were like. They went through our house. I was in absolute shock. I was shaking. I felt like a criminal," she said.
 
While Harrison was in hospital, Miss Garland was not allowed to be alone with her son. "I wasn't eating and I couldn't sleep because I was worried they would take him from me," she said. "Paul and I weren't allowed to be alone together. I never for one second questioned Paul. Neither of us needed to ask each other. We just knew."
 
At the time, Bethany was just 20-months-old and was placed in the care of Miss Garland's father. The case was brought before Bristol County Court, where a judge ordered the family to live in a family placement centre. "The judge didn't want to separate me from Harrison because I was still breast feeding," the mother said. "We were watched 24 hours a day and there were cameras in every room. It was like a prison because even when we were allowed to go out we had to have staff with us."
 
After three months, staff could find nothing wrong and recommended the family should stay together. But social workers applied for an interim care order and the children were placed into foster care with their grandfather. They were only allowed to see the children for six hours each day under supervision for over a year.
 
"It was horrible. When I went home at night and the kids weren't there, I just broke down," said Miss Garland. "There was so much going on in our lives. We were a mess. We took things out on each other."
 
In January 2009, Miss Garland found a medical expert who believed Harrison had Osteogenesis imperfecta after looking into the family's medical history. Six months later, the two other doctors involved in the case agreed he could have the condition after reading the expert's report. South Gloucestershire Social Services then dropped their case. A month later, Harrison was diagnosed with Osteogenesis imperfecta. Doctors also tested Bethany, who was found to have a lesser type of the condition. Harrison is still having vitamin D injections to help strengthen his bones and sees a physiotherapist to help build the muscle surrounding his bones.
 
Mr Crummey, 41, said: "All we wanted to do was help our sick child but we were treated like criminals. We had to sit and watch Harrison in pain. We've missed out on so much of our children's lives. They've been through so much. It tore Amy and I apart because we didn't know how to handle it. We've never received an apology from social services. It makes me feel very angry."
 
A spokesman for South Gloucestershire Council said: "While we cannot comment on individual cases, we do have a legal duty to protect children and young people living in South Gloucestershire and we always put the welfare of the child at the heart of how we deliver our services."
 

 
The GOS says: For God's sake, will these people never learn?
 
Knee-jerk reactions have no place in public life. Hiding behind weasel words like “legal duty to protect children” doesn't even begin to excuse them from the duty that should apply to all officials, to deal with the public on the basis of rationality and humanity, to make sure they have all the relevant facts before they act, and to keep themselves up to date on previous case history.
 
We expect our teachers to undergo frequent retraining, we expect police officers to have up to date and relevant knowledge of the law, we expect doctors to have a wide knowledge of recent developments in their specialisms, so why are we saddled with social workers who can't be bothered to read the papers and know what has happened in other local authorities, or to recognise that there are frequently perfectly innocent explanations for injuries to children?
 
Because this has all happened before, hasn't it? With the most tragic consequences, too, though only for the children and parents involved, not for the social workers and doctors who acted with criminal stupidity and arrogance.
 
I am referring, of course, to the dreadful (and very well publicised) case of Mark and Nicky Hardingham who had their three children taken from them by Norfolk Social Services because one of them had suspicious fractured bones. Despite the fact that the child was suffering from Brittle Bones, which ran in the family, all three children were sent for adoption and were lost to their parents for ever. To compound the evil cruelty, Nicky Hardingham then fell pregnant and had to flee to Ireland or that child would have been snatched as soon as it was born.
 
We wrote several times about this case – go here and follow the links.
 
Oh, and the first person to send us an email containing the words “damned if they do, damned if they don't”, gets a parcel of dog poo through their letterbox. We have the technology (and a dog). There's no excuse for sloppy thinking and ignorance where children's lives are concerned, and it's time our Social Services and the Family Courts realised it.
 
Bastards. Lazy bastards.

 

 
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